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2:07pm Sunday 20th July 2008
A breastfeeding picnic is taking place in Oxford tomorrow.
A group of mums will be in the University Parks between 1pm and 3pm to promote breastfeeding in public.
The Protect My Baby, Protect Me event also aims to raise awareness of the legal issues surrounding breastfeeding and the Single Equalities Bill.
For more information visit www.mumsnet.com
Tom, says...
3:34pm Sun 20 Jul 08
DanOxford wrote:Well said Dan.
Imagine what chaos our society would be if everyone got on with (and were allowed to get on with) their individual lives, and allowed others to do the same, without 'raising awareness' of whatever perceived 'victimhood' they (or more likely those who they champion, often uninvited)are suffering. I imagine (and please correct me if I'm mistaken) that the vast majority of people don't object to children being breastfed. I further imagine, that the vast majority of mothers would wish to do this discretely wherever possible. But no- 'awareness' must be raised, a 'right' must be exercised in the most public, 'in-your-face' way possible, and woe betide any objection. The sooner we rid our Country of the meddling classes and their ham-fisted attempts to make everyone a victim, the quicker we can return to a genuinely tolerant , give- and -take based society founded on common sense.
DanOxford, says...
3:51pm Sun 20 Jul 08
J, Oxford says...
4:47pm Sun 20 Jul 08
Tom, says...
4:54pm Sun 20 Jul 08
J wrote:You have completely missed the point lady (i suspect you are one).
What's wrong with breastfeeding in public? If you can't understand the difference between a breast being "kinky" or a breast being food for a baby and having no s*xual connection at all, then you really need to get out more!
J, oxford says...
5:07pm Sun 20 Jul 08
You have completely missed the point lady (i suspect you are one).
It is not nice to see an intimate part of a body in public,simple as that.
women, oxford says...
6:20pm Sun 20 Jul 08
women, oxford says...
8:23pm Sun 20 Jul 08
public_flasher, high horse says...
9:36pm Sun 20 Jul 08
C, Oxford says...
9:37pm Sun 20 Jul 08
right on mum, oxford says...
9:38pm Sun 20 Jul 08
Breastfeeding Mum, says...
9:44pm Sun 20 Jul 08
Common sense, Oxford says...
9:58pm Sun 20 Jul 08
ox2 gooner, walton manor says...
10:39pm Sun 20 Jul 08
amy-lou, suffolk says...
11:11pm Sun 20 Jul 08
Tom wrote:why is it that breast feeding mothers are ofter associated with being hippies?
DanOxford wrote: Imagine what chaos our society would be if everyone got on with (and were allowed to get on with) their individual lives, and allowed others to do the same, without 'raising awareness' of whatever perceived 'victimhood' they (or more likely those who they champion, often uninvited)are suffering. I imagine (and please correct me if I'm mistaken) that the vast majority of people don't object to children being breastfed. I further imagine, that the vast majority of mothers would wish to do this discretely wherever possible. But no- 'awareness' must be raised, a 'right' must be exercised in the most public, 'in-your-face' way possible, and woe betide any objection. The sooner we rid our Country of the meddling classes and their ham-fisted attempts to make everyone a victim, the quicker we can return to a genuinely tolerant , give- and -take based society founded on common sense.Well said Dan. I do not object to breastfeeding,i do object to seeing it when i am walking through a park though. What next..... Sex in public in front of children because it is a human right???? Oxfords bored overpaid hippies need to really recognise what they are doing to this city in the long term.
amy-lou, suffolk says...
11:17pm Sun 20 Jul 08
women wrote:how on earth can you say that? I'm feeding a 12 month + baby and the only joy i get out of it is knowing i'm doing the best i could ever do for my baby and i have made him grow and develop into the lovely little boy he is today.
yet again a bunch of do gooders wanting to make a point-do they not realise that in this day and age with all the perverts that get off on this are going to be attracted to this kind of crap. get a life-i am a women with 3 children and beleive that this should not be done in public-if they need to go out then express it and put it in a bottle. I think they are a bunch of perverted women who get turned on by a baby sucking on a tit in public and men watching and when they are still letting the baby suckle at 1 year plus should be classed as paedophilia
DanOxford, says...
2:38am Mon 21 Jul 08
Shel, UK says...
8:01am Mon 21 Jul 08
MMS, says...
11:55am Mon 21 Jul 08
mand, some distance from Oxford says...
11:56am Mon 21 Jul 08
DanOxford, says...
1:16pm Mon 21 Jul 08
MMS wrote:...like protesting outside Parliament?
\'Imagine what chaos our society would be if everyone got on with (and were allowed to get on with) their individual lives, and allowed others to do the same\' - including the right to raise others\' awareness of issues they feel are important? ;)
Laura, Oxford says...
1:38pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Tom wrote:I am sure that both of you buy The Sun newspaper to check out the breasts in there!
DanOxford wrote: Imagine what chaos our society would be if everyone got on with (and were allowed to get on with) their individual lives, and allowed others to do the same, without \'raising awareness\' of whatever perceived \'victimhood\' they (or more likely those who they champion, often uninvited)are suffering. I imagine (and please correct me if I\'m mistaken) that the vast majority of people don\'t object to children being breastfed. I further imagine, that the vast majority of mothers would wish to do this discretely wherever possible. But no- \'awareness\' must be raised, a \'right\' must be exercised in the most public, \'in-your-face\' way possible, and woe betide any objection. The sooner we rid our Country of the meddling classes and their ham-fisted attempts to make everyone a victim, the quicker we can return to a genuinely tolerant , give- and -take based society founded on common sense.Well said Dan. I do not object to breastfeeding,i do object to seeing it when i am walking through a park though. What next..... Sex in public in front of children because it is a human right???? Oxfords bored overpaid hippies need to really recognise what they are doing to this city in the long term.
M, Oxford says...
2:27pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Eve, UK says...
4:18pm Mon 21 Jul 08
S, Oxford says...
4:24pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Jenny, Oxford says...
4:49pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Get your, baps out says...
5:17pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Lorayn Brown, Oxford says...
5:55pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Jo, Witney, Oxon says...
6:03pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Lorayn Brown, says...
6:55pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Jo wrote:Recently many people have been asked to leave public places, such as MacDonalds and Starbucks.
I breastfeed my seven months old son and sometimes this is done discreetly public. But I don\'t understand the need for these picnics and similar events, people know that breast is best and the majority of people wouldn\'t be able to spot a discreet breastfeeder. Have all these breastfeeders been asked to stop breastfeeding in public or are they just making an issue out of nothing?
btw, I breastfed my first son unitil he was 2years. This is normal and in the interests of the child not a sexual act, anyone thinking that it is perverse is the sicko in this debate!
Mike Brady, Cambridge says...
9:08pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Mr Ison, England says...
10:18pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Morgangee, The Picnic says...
11:03pm Mon 21 Jul 08
Mr Ison, England says...
1:04am Tue 22 Jul 08
David, wantage says...
7:34am Tue 22 Jul 08
J wrote:Well, J, I think you need to chill out, having self-censored the common word, sexual.
What's wrong with breastfeeding in public? If you can't understand the difference between a breast being "kinky" or a breast being food for a baby and having no s*xual connection at all, then you really need to get out more!
John Thomas, A park near you says...
8:33am Tue 22 Jul 08
Lord Rochester, Woodstock says...
8:38am Tue 22 Jul 08
Brighton, Brighton says...
8:40am Tue 22 Jul 08
Lord Rochester wrote:I too am a Pier of the realm and feel persecuted as i was the victim of an arson attack
I agree with John Thomas - I feel a persectued minority , my poems were deemed treasonable and of a lavacious nature , my whoring is unacceptable , my drinking and the carring out of various riots ,sports and japes is now deemed unaceptable behavior , now I would be fined and possibly imprisioned for smashing the windows and doors on a whorehouse if i didnt feel i had my moneys worth . But these wontons are allowed to suckle their childeren in public - its one law for the working class and another for a pier of the realm - disgusting , what is this country coming to
Mr Britain, OXford says...
8:47am Tue 22 Jul 08
John, Oxford says...
8:49am Tue 22 Jul 08
Lorayn Brown, says...
10:06am Tue 22 Jul 08
Mr Britain wrote:You could always take your dinner to the toilet so my child didn't have to watch an ill-educated misogynist eating next to them whilst they tried to enjoy their breastfeed.
Walking naked down the high street is also natural if you live in darkest timbuctoo - but in Oxford one would be locked up - why is it one law for the native and another for the law abbiding citizen , personally I think women should be allowed to breast feed in public , in the toilets of restaraunts , but not at the table sat next to me whilst i am tucking into my scoff- what about my rights to the enjoyment of my meal without some unwashed old baggaage feeding their spewing brat at the table
Lorayn Brown, says...
10:08am Tue 22 Jul 08
John wrote:Sadly, you missed it, it was held yesterday, as the article states.
As this is a public event and a "Promotion" these ladys wont mind if me and all my mates come along to watch - I have about 30 interested parties so far
Jenny, Oxford says...
10:15am Tue 22 Jul 08
Alan Page, Guildford says...
10:40am Tue 22 Jul 08
DanOxford wrote:So you now have no objection to people downloading illegal crap off the internet in the privacy of their own homes?
Imagine what chaos our society would be if everyone got on with (and were allowed to get on with) their individual lives, and allowed others to do the same, without 'raising awareness' of whatever perceived 'victimhood' they (or more likely those who they champion, often uninvited)are suffering. I imagine (and please correct me if I'm mistaken) that the vast majority of people don't object to children being breastfed. I further imagine, that the vast majority of mothers would wish to do this discretely wherever possible. But no- 'awareness' must be raised, a 'right' must be exercised in the most public, 'in-your-face' way possible, and woe betide any objection. The sooner we rid our Country of the meddling classes and their ham-fisted attempts to make everyone a victim, the quicker we can return to a genuinely tolerant , give- and -take based society founded on common sense.
Alan Page, Guildford says...
10:43am Tue 22 Jul 08
DanOxford wrote:And who supports the rights of "junkie car thieves" to end up in that state in the first place? Who even thinks drug dealing junkies should be allowed to bring up children in houses surrounded by drugs paraphanalia?
The only thing that can stop this nonsense is when the various 'minorities' they pigeon hole individuals into complain- for example- a Muslim family objecting to naked breasts in the park, or the gay community opposing a publically broadcast call to prayer on behalf of a religion intolerant towards homosexuals. Publically demonstrating your 'right' to do whatever the Politically Correct deem socially acceptable (breastfeeding in public= natural, necessary human function to be 'celebrated', urinating in public = crime to be punished)just gets up perfectly reasonable, tolerant people's noses, increases resentment and forces people to put themselves on one side of the fence or the other. The only real 'winners' are the meddling classes themselves, who either get attention and kudos (junkie criminal car theif wasting £12,000 of OUR money delaying the Bonn square development, anti- car lobby Cyclox etc etc) or actually PAID to discover victims and discrimination (Oxfordshires's own Racial Equality Council- accused by a black Caribbean employee of discrimination b teh black African managers!) With no 'victims' and no 'awareness' to be 'raised' they would have to get a hobby that didn't involve bossing other people around or would be unemployed- all to the rest of our advantage- even those amongst us who are gay, black, Muslim, disabled, have brown eyes, drive a blue car, like wearing cardigans or prefer apple juice to orange.
Alan Page, Guildford says...
DanOxford, says...
3:28pm Sun 20 Jul 08
I imagine (and please correct me if I'm mistaken) that the vast majority of people don't object to children being breastfed. I further imagine, that the vast majority of mothers would wish to do this discretely wherever possible. But no- 'awareness' must be raised, a 'right' must be exercised in the most public, 'in-your-face' way possible, and woe betide any objection.
The sooner we rid our Country of the meddling classes and their ham-fisted attempts to make everyone a victim, the quicker we can return to a genuinely tolerant , give- and -take based society founded on common sense.